ADMITTING MISTAKES & MAKING PROMISES

Pernah ga sih merasa bersalah pada orang lain, dan mau minta maaf pada orang tersebut? Itulah salah satu pengertian dari apa itu yang disebut Admitting Mistakes . Mungkin masih banyak orang yang merasa susah ataupun takut untuk meminta maaf . Mungkin takut untuk dibilang Looser atau seorang pecundang . Tapi sebenarnya orang-orang yang berani untuk mengakui kesalahannya itu adalah seorang yang LUAR BIASA, hehe .  Nah, kalau sudah minta maaf, terkadang seseorang diminta untuk berjanji untuk tidak mengulangi kesalahan lagi, itu yang kita sebut sebagai Making Promises .

Admitting Mistakes

Admitting mistakes is someone's consciousness who’s doing something wrong or on purpose. The word which usually use is ‘sorry, forgive me', etc 

 Admitting mistakes can also be expressed to represent the person who made mistake. Thus, you can help to solve the problems. So that many people would love to be your friends. This skill can liberate you and allow you and others to move on to better relationships and outcomes.    

The example expressions of Admitting Mistakes:

ž  I’m sorry. It’s my fault.

ž  I admit what I have done is wrong.

ž  Sorry, I didn’t mean to.

ž  Yes, I take the blame.

ž  It’s my mistakes. Please forgive me.

ž  I know. I shouldn’t have done that. Sorry.

ž  I never intended it that way.

ž  You’re right. I’m fully responsible for this matter.

ž  I'm sorry that I've ignored your opinion.

ž  This has been my terrible mistake.

ž  Sorry, I was rude to you.

Dialogue:

Jane           : Who should be responsible to this?

Maid          : Sorry miss, I have to admit that it is my fault.

Jane           : So, what will you do now??

Maid          : Yes miss, so I will replace the food with the new one. 

Making Promises

Make promise is important in some condition, for example when you have just made a mistakes, you must make a promise to someone else to don't make same mistakes twice to her/him or when you have schedule that must you do with your friends, like doing homework, employment contract, etc.

Make promises is important when you want to do something to convince someone, but the promise must be fulfilled so that people can trust you.
In addition to making promises to others, you can make an appointment for yourself. In this case, for example, promises to be a better person, or a promise to meet the targets that you have make in  the future.

Examples :                                                                  Responding:

1. I promise I will help you                                           1.Thank you

2. Keep my promise. I won’t do it again.                      2. All right. Keep your promise.

3. I swear I will not let others know this problem.          3. O.K. Thanks

4. I assure you that I will return the book on time.          4. Really? Let me be assured.

5. Don’t worry. I’ll see you before I leave.                    5. O.K. I’ll wait for you

6. I promise to manage my time well.                            6. I trust you 

At last, I know that not easy to say ' I'm Sorry' but if you said that sentence you will know "How awesome life is "